“Take the pain out of love then love won’t exist,” written by ‘The Academy is…’ in their song called “Everything We Had”. This phrase is saying that because love is pain and if we take away the pain then there will be no love. It also is saying that we cannot have love without the pain that comes with it. Thinking this way this phrase must be a contradiction, because love is considered a good emotion and that if the pain were taken out there would only be good left. Due to this thinking, love still would be able to exist, making the phrase a contradiction.
The paradox in this phrase is simple, that love, in this case is like many other things, a coin. Coins are always two sided and without one side, you cannot have the other. If we follow this concept, the phrase is in no way a contradiction and is a paradox, for if we take the pain, or the back of the coin, out of love, we cannot have the other side, for what can exist without half it self. This phrase is mostly implying that love is a risk and there is always the chance that you will get hurt, which in many cases is a huge lesson for students in high school, not just love with a boy/girlfriend but also with their friends and family.
This paradox, to me, is an example of life, how nothing can be one sided when there is something to gain and lose. Knowing that there is always a risk in falling in love and then being able to still live with it is something very brave, though it would not be seen as such by some one who never thought of the risk. Because I am an open person and though I know it’s a risk I still continue to be that kind of person makes this phrase from one of my favorite bands really hit the mark.
5/14/09
Paradox Love
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